I think the whole argument of black girls demeaning black guys by dating someone who is is not black is absolutely over-simplified and aim to take the blame from black men. Many black girls (Not all) , especially the ones who exclusively date outside of their race you will find have extensive trauma due to their race and black boys in particular (They won’t admit it) . I know several girls who can’t be around black boys because they automatically feel ugly and inferior because of their past experience in school to the point where it reaches anxiety. You have a whole community on twitter and social media telling black girls they are inferior and comparing them to animals. You have music videos and artist reaffirming to black girls that they will never be wanted by their own race and that they will never be as pretty than…. But when they date outside and find someone who loves and cherish them its treachery.